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StaryEyed
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Registered: 08-11-2005 Location:
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posted on 08-11-2005 at 02:27 |
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thinking about it...
Ok, here's the situation...Im 16, and currently, my bf is staying with me...you see, he's 16 as well, and from England, and he wanted to come visit and spend the summer with me. well, our time together is almost up. and before he leaves, i want to do THAT with him. is that wrong? Im a virgin, and so is he...that i am for sure. we have discussed it, on several occassions, and discussed the safest way about doing it...such as using condoms AND the pill...but im still worried...will it hurt? if so, how much? i love him so much...and he loves me too...that is why he flew all the way out to Nebraska to be with me...he, himself, has never even had a "real" girl friend...ive known this boy for quite a while, and he is both my best friend, and my boy friend...will doing this mess up our relationship? or make it better? please help..im so lost...
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moonlite
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Registered: 07-20-2005 Location:
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posted on 08-11-2005 at 14:42 |
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Thinking About It Starry Eyed
When he goes back to England you may never see him again. Hadn't You rather let the fellow who will be your husband have this wonderful experience with you. I know it is difficult and I want toexplore this thing too but will have to wait if I can
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The Virgin Nurse
Senior Member
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Registered: 06-04-2005 Location: Somewhere in Louisiana
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posted on 08-12-2005 at 21:57 |
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Wohhhh...TIME OUT
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Ok, here's the situation...Im 16, and currently, my bf is staying with me...you see, he's 16 as well, and from England, and he wanted to come visit and spend the summer with me. well, our time together is almost up. and before he leaves, i want to do THAT with him. is that wrong? Im a virgin, and so is he...that i am for sure. we have discussed it, on several occassions, and discussed the safest way about doing it...such as using condoms AND the pill...but im still worried...will it hurt? if so, how much? i love him so much...and he loves me too...that is why he flew all the way out to Nebraska to be with me...he, himself, has never even had a "real" girl friend...ive known this boy for quite a while, and he is both my best friend, and my boy friend...will doing this mess up our relationship? or make it better? please help..im so lost...
So..let me get this straight...you want to have sex with this guy before he goes back to England? OK..NOOOOOOOO. It's your Hormones wanting to have sex with him...what happens if you get pregenant and he is in England. What if you get STDS, AIDS, HIV. You don't have sex because of love through the eyes but by the soul. If he becomes your husband, don't you want to give him your virginity then? In Wedlock? It will be better if you waited til that day. People say it's the best when they wait to have sex on their wedding night. Anyway...if you "LOVE HIM SOOO MUCH" Both of you say safe. I'm glad you talked about it before...that's a good start Good luck on your choice 
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